Last week Kim Tracy Prince and I touched on the complexities of a buyer or seller’s relationship with their real estate agent. I talked about two agent archetypes, the shark and the therapist. Now I’m adding one more: the passive or aggressive agent. Or maybe the frenemy, someone who claims to support you as they exploit your doubts and insecurities.
You see, my home is currently listed by owner, though it’s on the MLS thanks to one of those boutique-y agencies that sells services a la carte. From time to time, I get calls from potential listing agents who have nothing but my best interests in mind, at least that’s what they tell me when they try to convince me to list with them.
Last week, I received a letter instead of a call. Mrs. Moldofsky, it began, I wanted to offer you some assistance with selling your home on your own, the agent wrote. She included a “helpful” brochure to assist me. Indeed, the glossy, full-color eight-page document was titled, Helpful Tips on Selling Your Own Home.
The brochure included useful tips like reminders to change my address for magazine subscriptions and cancel the newspaper prior to moving out of the residence. But it also listed “helpful” reminders like the fact that my home will sell for a higher price if I use a real estate agent. Better yet, it cautioned me against putting a For Sale By Owner sign on my property. Huh?
In some sense, the ploy worked, I mean here I am writing about it, but the whole piece reeks of a bait and switch approach. At some point we may choose to list our property with an agent, but it’s not going to be with the woman who sent me this brochure.




